Hello Again

I'm not a writer, by any means. I could never even keep a diary because I couldn't make it a habit to write. Gee, sound familiar? It seems I turn to it though, or at least want to do it whenever I have a free moment though. So, here I am. Again.

Since the last time I wrote I've managed to:

1. Lose 20 pounds. (And gain about 10 back but we won't discuss that)
2. Learn more French than I ever knew
3. FINALLY GRADUATE
4. Not get the job I thought I really wanted
5. Have at least 2 breakdowns because of #4
6. Fell in love with the idea of love again.
   
7. Got into a strange, long distance situation with a man that I had no business doing.
8. Sadly had to put my dog to sleep
9. Sprained my ankle and got my first concussion all in the same day
   
10. Accepted the fact that there are no facts about my future
11. Started dating.
    

Don't know if I'll keep this up, but now that I've made this blog more anonymous and am more comfortable with it, I feel like I can be more honest about everything. We'll see

Why Lie? I'm lazy.

There's no real reason to stop blogging once you've started unless you're caught in something you really shouldn't have been doing in the first place. Nothing as exciting as that happened, I just googled myself and found it WAY too easy to find me. Don't really know if I should have changed the privacy settings on here or not. Realistically, nothing I've ever written is something that I'm ashamed about, some things are just more personal than others.

So let's just get it all out in the open:

I'm obviously female and in South Florida and not by choice. I'm trying to wrap up a Bachelor's degree in Political Science but haven't made any concrete decisions about what the next step is. I love my mother, and have plenty of daddy issues- don't we all? I am absolutely addicted to traveling and definitely have my favorite cities. I'll be in DC for the third time this year in December! My friends are my world and most of them don't know about this blog or have forgotten all about it. This makes me happy since I like to think of it as my little nook in the world.

I think that's a pretty good snapshot of my life.

Oui Mom, You're Right.

Mothers just have a way about them. I don't think anyone can explain, not even they can. It's like they acquire all this insight and knowledge just by having their kids and of course want to bestow it upon them whether they like it or not. Well, ladies and gentlemen, I think I've finally reached that age when I'm going to take some of that advice.

After one of these lovely heart to hearts with the maman, I'll be taking 3 more classes next year. Luckily they're classes that I'm pretty excited about- French! I took French many, many moons ago and vaguely remember how to count and to identify colors but it's something I've been wanting to do for a while.

The way I see it, this is a win-win situation: I get to boost my GPA with the 10 credits because let's get real, I'm not taking any other classes, how can I not do well? And I get to scratch "learn another language" off of my Bucket List.

In other news, I've been trying to watch Lawrence of Arabia for days now. Between working 50+ hours a week, and pretty much doing nothing other than sleeping and eating while at home, I can't seem to stay awake. I don't think people should be allowed to make 4 hour long movies. Seriously, we complained about Titanic and Benjamin Button, but this one takes the cake!

I also finally decided that I would go through with buying the book, 1000 Places to See In The US and Canada Before You Die. I have mixed feelings about it. Realistically, the best thing for me to do is to start working through th Florida list, and that's just what I've been doing. Let me be honest, folks- I could have died without seeing most of these places. Some of them are almost completely uneventful trips. But they're trips nonetheless and I'm enjoying making my way through it. My next stop? Chicago!

Booked a Spirit flight for $47 roundtrip taxes included and am taking off in September with some friends to explore the Windy City. I've always had a not-so-secret crush on the city of Chicago so I cannot wait! More on that to come.

Mini-Vacation

Aside from the recent drama in my life, I'm actually having a pretty great time! Next week I leave for DC for 3 days. I know, I know, I was just there in February. I just love that city! It seems like every time I go, I find something new I like.

This time I'll actually be staying in Virginia which is something that I have never done before. So we'll be reviewing the Crystal City/Arlington area. Exciting. Luckily, it's conveniently located to the Reagan airport which we're flying into so it already has a bonus point.

I'll be traveling with a friend of mine that has never been. She had no idea what she wanted to do or what she could do in the city but every now and then I get a text telling me that she's added a couple of things to her list of things to do. Cute, right?

I'm also excited about seeing an old college friend that I haven't seen in 2 years. I felt so awful about not contacting her when I went last time, but hanging out with her this time should be a blast. And lets not forget that I'll be meeting a pretty cool chick for the first time! I'm excited about trying out these places Lilu, and am really thankful for your help!

More info on my exciting adventures to come!

An Open Letter To All Miami Drivers

Dear Miami drivers,

After living in this city all my life, the following is a list of things I've learned most of you are not aware of or chose to ignore. For the sake of your car and mine (and my sanity), I hope you take something away from this list.

1. That little doohickey on the left hand side of your steering wheel is called a Turning Signal. You use it to indicate when you want to turn or change lanes. Go ahead, press it down, it won't hurt you.
   
2. That same little doohickey turns off by itself when you make a wide enough turn but not when you change lanes. Remember how you turned it on? Do the opposite. There we go, it's off.
3. Brake lights are not optional. Buy them, get them, install them. Keep them working.
   
4. My car, much like myself, do NOT want to be sodomized. Get off my ass.
5. It rains in Miami. When this magical event happens and water falls from the sky we should probably turn our lights on so that we can see better and the cars behind us can see your car better.
6. While we're on the topic of rain- please note that puddles are accumulations of water. This is Miami, there are puddles and potholes full of water everywhere you turn! Slow the heck down! Not only is it bad for your brakes but it splashes onto other cars and can scare the be-jay-sus out of an unsuspecting driver.
7. Traffic lights are not there for decoration. Green means go, YELLOW MEANS SLOW DOWN, and red means STOP.
   
8. When making a left turn, either wait for the lead light or when the light is green and there are no cars coming your way. Waiting in the middle of the intersection during a yellow light and wait until the light turns red to make a left turn.
   
9. Yielding. Oh boy. This is when you are actually giving up the right of way, not inserting yourself like a rapist.
   
10. Merging; view number 9.

Sincerely,

Your neighbor.

Movies to see

So, according to Ebert, these are 102 movies to see before you die. Sounds like an interesting summer project for anyone out there with plenty of time on their hands. The ones in the purple italics are ones that I've seen (18 out of 102), how do you match up?

1. "2001: A Space Odyssey" (1968) Stanley Kubrick
2. "The 400 Blows" (1959) Francois Truffaut
3. "8 1/2" (1963) Federico Fellini
4. "Aguirre, the Wrath of God" (1972) Werner Herzog
5. "Alien" (1979) Ridley Scott
6. "All About Eve" (1950) Joseph L. Mankiewicz
7. "Annie Hall" (1977) Woody Allen
8. "Apocalypse Now" (1979) Francis Ford Coppola*
9. "Bambi" (1942) Disney
10. "The Battleship Potemkin" (1925) Sergei Eisenstein
11. "The Best Years of Our Lives" (1946) William Wyler
12. "The Big Red One" (1980) Samuel Fuller
13. "The Bicycle Thief" (1949) Vittorio De Sica
14. "The Big Sleep" (1946) Howard Hawks
15. "Blade Runner" (1982) Ridley Scott
16. "Blowup" (1966) Michelangelo Antonioni
17. "Blue Velvet" (1986) David Lynch
18. "Bonnie and Clyde" (1967) Arthur Penn
19. "Breathless" (1959 Jean-Luc Godard
20. "Bringing Up Baby" (1938) Howard Hawks
21. "Carrie" (1975) Brian DePalma
22. "Casablanca" (1942) Michael Curtiz
23. "Un Chien Andalou" (1928) Luis Bunuel & Salvador Dali
24. "Children of Paradise" / "Les Enfants du Paradis" (1945) Marcel Carne
25. "Chinatown" (1974) Roman Polanski
26. "Citizen Kane" (1941) Orson Welles
27. "A Clockwork Orange" (1971) Stanley Kubrick
28. "The Crying Game" (1992) Neil Jordan
29. "The Day the Earth Stood Still" (1951) Robert Wise
30. "Days of Heaven" (1978) Terence Malick
31. "Dirty Harry" (1971) Don Siegel
32. "The Discreet Charm of the Bourgeoisie" (1972) Luis Bunuel
33. "Do the Right Thing" (1989 Spike Lee
34. "La Dolce Vita" (1960) Federico Fellini
35. "Double Indemnity" (1944) Billy Wilder
36. "Dr. Strangelove" (1964) Stanley Kubrick
37. "Duck Soup" (1933) Leo McCarey
38. "E.T. -- The Extra-Terrestrial" (1982) Steven Spielberg
39. "Easy Rider" (1969) Dennis Hopper
40. "The Empire Strikes Back" (1980) Irvin Kershner
41. "The Exorcist" (1973) William Friedkin
42. "Fargo" (1995) Joel & Ethan Coen
43. "Fight Club" (1999) David Fincher
44. "Frankenstein" (1931) James Whale
45. "The General" (1927) Buster Keaton & Clyde Bruckman
46. "The Godfather," "The Godfather, Part II" (1972, 1974) Francis Ford Coppola
47. "Gone With the Wind" (1939) Victor Fleming
48. "GoodFellas" (1990) Martin Scorsese
49. "The Graduate" (1967) Mike Nichols
50. "Halloween" (1978) John Carpenter
51. "A Hard Day's Night" (1964) Richard Lester
52. "Intolerance" (1916) D.W. Griffith
53. "It's a Gift" (1934) Norman Z. McLeod
54. "It's a Wonderful Life" (1946) Frank Capra
55. "Jaws" (1975) Steven Spielberg
56. "The Lady Eve" (1941) Preston Sturges
57. "Lawrence of Arabia" (1962) David Lean
58. "M" (1931) Fritz Lang
59. "Mad Max 2" / "The Road Warrior" (1981) George Miller
60. "The Maltese Falcon" (1941) John Huston
61. "The Manchurian Candidate" (1962) John Frankenheimer
62. "Metropolis" (1926) Fritz Lang
63. "Modern Times" (1936) Charles Chaplin
64. "Monty Python and the Holy Grail" (1975) Terry Jones & Terry Gilliam
65. "Nashville" (1975) Robert Altman
66. "The Night of the Hunter" (1955) Charles Laughton
67. "Night of the Living Dead" (1968) George Romero
68. "North by Northwest" (1959) Alfred Hitchcock
69. "Nosferatu" (1922) F.W. Murnau
70. "On the Waterfront" (1954) Elia Kazan
71. "Once Upon a Time in the West" (1968) Sergio Leone
72. "Out of the Past" (1947) Jacques Tournier
73. "Persona" (1966) Ingmar Bergman
74. "Pink Flamingos" (1972) John Waters
75. "Psycho" (1960) Alfred Hitchcock
76. "Pulp Fiction" (1994) Quentin Tarantino
77. "Rashomon" (1950) Akira Kurosawa
78. "Rear Window" (1954) Alfred Hitchcock
79. "Rebel Without a Cause" (1955) Nicholas Ray
80. "Red River" (1948) Howard Hawks
81. "Repulsion" (1965) Roman Polanski
82. "The Rules of the Game" (1939) Jean Renoir
83. "Scarface" (1932) Howard Hawks
84. "The Scarlet Empress" (1934) Josef von Sternberg
85. "Schindler's List" (1993) Steven Spielberg
86. "The Searchers" (1956) John Ford
87. "The Seven Samurai" (1954) Akira Kurosawa
88. "Singin' in the Rain" (1952) Stanley Donen & Gene Kelly
89. "Some Like It Hot" (1959) Billy Wilder
90. "A Star Is Born" (1954) George Cukor
91. "A Streetcar Named Desire" (1951) Elia Kazan
92. "Sunset Boulevard" (1950) Billy Wilder
93. "Taxi Driver" (1976) Martin Scorsese
94. "The Third Man" (1949) Carol Reed
95. "Tokyo Story" (1953) Yasujiro Ozu
96. "Touch of Evil" (1958) Orson Welles
97. "The Treasure of the Sierra Madre" (1948) John Huston
98. "Trouble in Paradise" (1932) Ernst Lubitsch
99. "Vertigo" (1958) Alfred Hitchcock
100. "West Side Story" (1961) Jerome Robbins/Robert Wise
101. "The Wild Bunch" (1969) Sam Peckinpah
102. "The Wizard of Oz" (1939) Victor Flemming

Fourth of July

So, I've been lacking a bit on the blog writing but at least I have a good reason. Besides getting caught up with work, having a crappy internet connection at home, and the need to really sit down and think before I write- I've had fun!

This past weekend we "kidnapped" a friend and took her to Disney. There's just something about Disney that makes me happy. Even at 9pm when the fireworks are over, my ankles are swollen, and my feet feel like they're on fire, I wanna come back the next day. We went to EPCOT which was great since I had never actually finished the park. It really served to show me that in another life or at some crazy point in my life I want to pack everything I need in one suitcase and try to live in Italy. Even the fake Disney Italy makes me happy. The thought of learning just enough Italian to get by and finding a job and a place to live somehow sounds more like an adventure than something scary. If I wasn't already in debt, I'd do it.

Wow, I just realized what I wrote. A blog I follow (and one I recommend if you've ever been in a relationship, faced hard times, or been a woman) TudorCityGirl, wrote something in response to the statement I just made. I can't say that I've read every post as she has been blogging for much longer but if I'm not mistaken, she has a life coach. The last bits of wisdom she got from the life coach and shared with her readers was to "do everything to live your best life." Coach also shared common excuses that people use to avoid doing so, my previous comment was one of them. Either way the responsible, numbers-loving adult in me won't let me do this until I'm more financially stable.

Lovely little tangent, wasn't that? The real reason for this post was that it is finally July and the 4th is just around the corner! Can you believe it? It feels like this year is both going by too quick and dragging on at the same time. Does that make sense to anyone else?

For most people, Valentine's Day is the day that they usually long for a companion. I, on the other hand, get this feeling around the Fourth of July. Maybe it was that one year with my first serious boyfriend that has had me spoiled and finding fireworks romantic. We went out to Bayside, and even though it was ridiculously hot and there were about 300 people surrounding us, for a brief moment, we were the only ones there. That he had the courage for all that PDA in front of my family no less, really impressed me. Wow, that was so corny! If Mel still reads my blog she'll gag a little. Sorry!

I think I'm going to cut this post short before I get out of hand. Anyone in need of a date this weekend? Lol, just kidding!